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Mothers' Day is Not a Hallmark Holiday!

I always use the term "Mothers' Day" rather than "Mother's Day" because I like to emphasize the collective unity of mothers as a whole. Mothers' Day was originally started after the Civil War, as a protest to the carnage of that war, by women who had lost their sons. Here is the original Mothers' Day Proclamation of Julia Ward Howe from 1870:

"Arise, then, women of this day! Arise all women who have hearts, whether our baptism be that of water or of fears!

Say firmly: "We will not have great questions decided by irrelevant agencies. Our husbands shall not come to us, reeking with carnage, for caresses and applause. Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience.

We women of one country will be too tender of those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs. From the bosom of the devastated earth a voice goes up with our own. It says "Disarm, Disarm! The sword of murder is not the balance of justice."

Blood does not wipe our dishonor nor violence indicate possession. As men have often forsaken the plow and the anvil at the summons of war, let women now leave all that may be left of home for a great and earnest day of counsel. Let them meet first, as women, to bewail and commemorate the dead.

Let them then solemnly take counsel with each other as to the means whereby the great human family can live in peace, each bearing after their own time the sacred impress, not of Caesar, but of God.

In the name of womanhood and of humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality may be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenient and at the earliest period consistent with its objects, to promote the alliance of the different nationalities, the amicable settlement of international questions, the great and general interests of peace."

You can honor the spirit of the original Mothers' Day proclamation by taking action for women and girls!

• Give a gift membership in CA NOW
• Send a Mothers' Day eCard with MomsRising
• Tell state legislators to make the budget fair to low-income families
• Read the Economic Policy Institute snapshot comparing maternity leave policies in the U.S. and 18 other OECD countries of comparable per capita income
• Support the Family Leave Insurance Act.
• Make a phone call to support grandparents raising children
• Urge Senate Judiciary Committee Chairman Patrick Leahy to stand strong against Bush's right-wing judicial nominees.
• Support the Ledbetter Fair Pay Act
• Ask the appropriate committees in the House and Senate to invest a total of $1 billion in voluntary family planning programs and services for 2009.
• Tell WalMart to change anti-mom policies

Listen Up Advocates!

The CA Commission on the Status of Women will be holding public hearings throughout California on all issues regarding women. They want to hear from you about what issues women and girls are facing and how the state should address them. The hearings will be comprised only of testimony from individuals and organizations, so it’s a great time to get your voice heard by those who recommend policy to the state regarding women and girls.

There will be three hearings:

June 19, 2008
1:30 to 5:30 PM
Hiram Johnson State Building
Milton Marks Auditorium
455 Golden Gate Avenue
San Francisco, CA 94102

June 26, 2008
1:30 to 5:30 PM
California Western School of Law
Moot Court Room
225 Cedar Street
San Diego, CA 92101

July 23, 2008
1 to 5 PM
Lewis Library and Technology Center
Steelworkers Auditorium
8437 Sierra Avenue
Fontana, CA 92335

For more information visit: www.women.ca.gov

More on How Awesome Women's College Softball Is

As a follow up to my post on women's college softball yesterday, I have to tell you this story. If it doesn't make you want to cry, something is wrong with you.

During a softball game between Central Washington University and Western Oregon University, Senior Sara Tucholsky, Western Oregon's right fielder, hit her first ever home run. On her way to first base, she blew out her knee and literally crawled through the dirt to touch the base but then couldn't go on. The coach consulted the umpire who told her she could bring in a pinch runner, but that Tucholsky would only get credit for an RBI, not a Home Run. Nobody else on her team could touch her, or it'd be an out. That's when Mallory Holtman, the first base player, summoned the short stop and the two carried Tucholsky around the bases, stopping at each one for her to touch it. They carried her around the bases so she wouldn't lose her one college career home run. (You'll also see in this story that all through the game a group of young men stood behind the right field fence and heckled the right fielder... I'm not saying. I'm just saying.)

The story reminded me of the young women at De Anza College who rescued a young woman who was being gang raped at a party. The three young women were athletes on the same team, and that stood out to me right away. Perhaps these young women had a sense of sisterhood, and teamwork, from playing sports together that gave them the courage to stand up to a group of men and carry the young, inebriated victim to safety. What was it about their involvement with sports that influenced them that way, where the accused rapists, many of whom were baseball players, used their team work to rape a 17 year old girl who was passed out drunk?

Women's Softball Symbol of Title IX Success

I spent the afternoon at a women's college softball game. It was awesome in and of itself--incredible athleticism, a fast paced game, and beautiful view in a beautiful stadium--but it was especially awesome today because there were dozens of youth league girls' softball teams there. The girls' teams, including my daughter's team, were invited to come and get a tour of the stadium facilities, and stand on the field during the national anthem. I got misty eyed seeing all the young girls on the field, flanked by these incredible college athletes. I was so proud of this team, too, for the togetherness they showed on the field and the respect they showed their opponents. It was a great experience, and one I thanked Title IX for.

But, although women's participation in college sports has increased by some 440% since Title IX, there is still a big gap. According to the Women's Sports Foundation, "women comprise 57 percent of the college student population but receive only 43 percent of the college athletic opportunities. Besides fighting for access to athletic participation opportunities, female athletes continue to face barriers in sports, such as in the treatment and benefits they receive when they do compete."

So we'll keep fighting for compliance, and better oversight by the OCR, even while we're watching the progress with joy and pride.

Borrowed this great graphic from our friends at the ACLU.

No, There's No Sexism in the Media Coverage of Hillary Clinton

Mark Morford Nails it

As a long-time bay area resident, I love Mark Morford's column for the SF Chronicle because of his irreverent tone and because, whether I agree with him or not, he always makes me think.

Coming on the heels of an AP poll showing Hillary leading against McCain in a potential head-to-head matchup and a Clinton win in the Pennsylvania primary, Morford's column this week pokes at the political conservatives who seem to equate passionate and committed women with bitchiness, and unobtrusive women with "class."

We all know what that distinction between "bitchy" and "classy" means. It's a linguistic code that means women should know their place and not speak up too loudly, at the risk of offending anyone.

Even someone in the powerful position of First Lady isn't supposed to actually use that power to accomplish anything, because that would be "unladylike" or "domineering" or any of the other terms that have been
thrown at Hillary Clinton over the last 16 years.

Hillary isn't the only one who takes the hit here. As Morford points out, the same kinds of accusations were used against Teresa Heinz Kerry and are currently being lobbed against Michelle Obama. I don't think anyone would expect Bill Clinton to idly play host as First Gentleman, but somehow the
idea of a First Lady who does more than serve tea and bake cookies is intimidating to a lot of people.

What is it that makes them so nervous of women?

It makes me think of a slogan I've seen for years on buttons and bumper stickers: "Men of quality respect women's equality." I've always figured that a truly powerful man, one who is secure about who he is, doesn't get scared of powerful women. It takes someone pretty insecure to say, "I'm going to restrict your power because I can't claim my own."

So here's to Hillary Clinton and the great candidates for the California state legislature recently endorsed by the CA NOW PAC, and every other person out there working to help us create a world where a powerful, intelligent woman can speak her mind and not automatically be written off as an overpowering, aggressive hindrance. And here’s to every woman who isn't afraid to go head to head with her critics for speaking her truth and claiming her power. These are the women who get things done!

Scary Budget, Scary Future

There's something I've been hearing about, and it scares me to death.

Of course everyone knows about the subprime mortgage collapse, and how it's driving families out of their homes across the country, and especially in California, where property values had risen so sharply in previous years. The Central Valley now has one of the highest rates of mortgage defaults in the country, and we have seen the recent market fall disproportionately affect women and children.

Now we're starting to hear that the housing market fall is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to our national economy.

This article and this video have me really wondering about where we'll be in a few years, as a nation. I have no desire to raise my daughter during a second Great Depression.

It's not just the matter of economic instability and collapse, either. What happens to women's rights when people are worried about simply getting food on the table each day? Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs suggests that concern about civil rights goes out the window when people have more immediate needs to worry about. It isn't just women who have to worry; all workers' rights take a hit when the supply of workers is greater than the demand.

Is this part of what we're seeing in our current state budget crisis and the decision to cut programs for some of our state's neediest people?

The Governor's May budget revise will be released on the 14th, and is expected to show a deficit of up to $20 billion. Governor Schwarzenegger is also expected to suggest additional budget cuts at this time, on top of his current proposals to remove some low-income children from the CalWORKs rolls, slash funding to local schools by $443 per student, and reduce grants to disabled women!

Fewer than half of families in California can afford the basics of housing, child care, food, health insurance and transportation. A family of four needs to earn $72,000 a year, more than three times the federal poverty level, just to make ends meet. Single-parent families, most often headed by women, have it even worse.

The state legislature is still debating on how to balance our state budget, and has until June 15th to get a budget to the Governor. With a 2/3 majority needed to pass the budget, every vote is needed! Tell your State Senator and Representative to help ensure that we don't put the weight of fixing our budget crisis on the backs of poor women and children.

Thought we could be reminded of our meaning...

FEMINISM

Pronunciation: \ˈfe-mə-ˌni-zəm\
Function: noun
Date: 1895 (Feminism is from 1851, but meant at first "state of being feminine;" sense of "advocacy of women's rights" is 1895.)
1 : the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes
2 : organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests

Hey Lesbians, We May Need to Come up with a New Name!

Three residents of the island of Lesbos are taking lesbians to court.  They claim that the organization Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece, in using the term lesbian to identify queer women, creates hardships for Lesbos residents. 

Sappho, an ancient Greek poet, was born on the island of Lesbos.  Many of her poems express romantic relationships between women.  From Sappho's birthplace we get out sexual identity.  In her poem, I have not had one word from her, she wrote:

"When she left, she wept
a great deal; she said to me, 'This parting must be
endured, Sappho.  I go, unwillingly.'
I said, 'Go, and be happy
but remember (you know
well) whom you leave shackled by love...'"

According to a spokesperson this is not an attack on lesbians, who create a large tourist trade for the island.  Instead, they want to be able to identify their nationality as Lesbians without having to clarify that they are not homosexual. One of the plaintiff's, however, stated that this use of the term "insults the identity" of the people of Lesbos. 

Maybe it's just me, but this stinks a bit of homophobia. Or could it be just a matter of reclaiming national identity? 

Let's Teach Kids that Beauty is only Skin-Deep!

Yes, that's sarcasm you hear. 

A new children's book, My Beautiful Mommy, is scheduled to be released on Mother's Day (reminder, it's May 11th).  The book allows you to "join a young girl as her Mommy goes through her plastic surgery experience, and learn how the whole family pitches in to help Mommy achieves her beautiful results."

Hooray!  Now young girls can start dreaming early about they day that they can become even more beautiful!  After all, that's what we truly value in our society, right?

What do we stand for?

With our ever-changing world demanding us to be many things all at once, sometimes we forget to take time to remind ourselves who we are BEFORE we're asked to be something else.
The women's movement is no different. Women are constantly asked to be all things to all people - nurturing, hard-working, compassionate, beautiful, intelligent, charming, empowered, and so much more. But I realize in my activism, I sometimes forget to check in with myself. I get so wrapped up with event planning and decision making and stand taking that I forget to ask myself why it is I'm planning the event or making the decision or taking a stand.
I need to be reminded of my personal mission in life. What is my purpose? Why am I a feminist? Why do I devote so much of my life to defending, supporting, and empowering women and girls? You'd think after years of participating in feminist activism that the answer would be clear, but sometimes the process dilutes the potency of my efforts, and what I set out to accomplish looks very little like the outcome.
I suppose this is why organizations, businesses, and the like develop mission statements. But sometimes it seems even those are abandoned, as we get swept away in the hustle and bustle of getting the job done - whatever "the job" may be.
Certainly not the most conventional post, I'm asking us all as feminists to look inside ourselves and define our own personal mission statement. In so doing, we will define who we are as feminists, as a feminist organization, as women and men committed to creating equality. So...
Who are we? What do we stand for?

The Pill: Where Would We Be Without It?!

Perhaps nothing changed the course for American women more than the introduction of The Pill. After being officially approved by the FDA, by 1967 12.5 million women relied on the contraceptive to control their own family planning. This kind of control by women of their own destinies affected every aspect of society.

The development of The Pill brought about profound change, much of which would not have happened without Katharine McCormick, an often overlooked hero of the movement for oral contraception. An early feminist, McCormick fought for suffrage, and then, at the age of 75, turned her attention--and her wealth--towards developing safe and effective birth control for women. McCormick was a philanthropist and scientist who put up the money for the testing of the oral contraceptive.

The Pill has a rich and empowering history, and a new book project will examine just how profound its affects were. The book, more generally about the 1960s, includes a chapter exploring the effects of The Pill on American families, and the author of the chapter is looking for subjects to interview. If you were born in the 1960s, and your mother took the pill, email the author of this chapter to set up an interview to tell your story of how if affected her life and therefor yours. If you were on the pill in the 1960s and one of your children would be interested in talking about how it affected their life, contact the author and share your story as well.

Attack on California Lesbian and Gay Couples

Thursday, April 24th was indeed a sad day for lesbian and gay couples and all advocates of equality.  The Equality for All coalition explains,

"Today the right wing extremists that want to unfairly use the laws of California to prevent gay and lesbian couples from getting married are turning in signatures to qualify their proposed marriage ban for the ballot.  They are claiming that they will submit 1.1 million signatures to various county elections officials.  We won't know for several weeks if they have qualified for the ballot but it is highly likely that they will.  That means our work needs to ramp up immediately.  California voters need to understand that the state should not be telling us who can and who cannot get married."

California NOW, as partners in the Equality for All campaign, encourages you to take action now.  We are going to need your involvement to defeat this initiative, should it make it on the ballot.  To find out how you can get involved, visit Equality for All.

The Equality for All campaign is a large and diverse coalition of civil rights, faith, choice, labor and community of color organizations working to stop and defeat any ballot measure that would deny gay and lesbian couples the right to marry in California.

Senate Agrees Women Should Get Paid Less Than Men

Sound like a headline from The Onion? It's not. It's true.

Today the Lilly Ledbetter Pay Equity Act failed to get the 60 votes needed in the Senate to proceed to a debate and vote.

Check here to see how your senators voted. If they voted yes, tell them thank you. If they voted no, tell them they suck, or some more eloquent version of that, and ask them to reconsider their vote.

From our friends at CodePink and Global Exchange

Anne Lamott is one of my favorite writers on the planet. Check her out at this CodePink and Global Exchange event!

Happy Earth Day!

Happy Earth Day everyone! Today communities around the world are celebrating life and giving the planet a big hug. Not sure yet how you'll be celebrating Earth Day? Find an event near you! The first Earth Day was held on April 22, 1970.

Over the weekend I had the pleasure of meeting and talking with dozens of CA NOW members at the state conference about the intertwining connections of social justice and ecology. The EcoFeminism Panel hosted a great workshop featuring the commitment of Eco Moms, consumers and activists to take action for the sustainability of our homes, planet and life.

Today I celebrate all the women and men who have contributed to the environmental movement from Rachel Carson’s Silent Spring to Vandana Shiva’s relentless efforts in food security to Mary Hunt’s current work on sustainable standard certification.

We can celebrate Earth Day by taking an action pledge, signing a petition to stop global warming and getting a copy of the Spring 08 edition of WE magazine for women which features Mary Hunt as an Earth Advocate!

 

Fair Pay Action: Make This Call TODAY!

Call your senators immediately to urge them to vote "yes" on the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act! The Senate is expected to vote on this critical bill for women's equality this Wednesday. You can use this number 866-338-1015, available Monday through Wednesday.

The House has already passed it to correct the recent Supreme Court decision that makes a woman's ability to sue for wage discrimination extremely limited, if not impossible.

This is no brainer stuff. Women should get equal pay for equal work. This fight has gone on too long; we need a victory.

Secretary of State, Debra Bowen Salutes CA NOW

Don't Miss It!

Celebrate Women in the Public Eye at the 2008 California NOW State Conference. Speakers, exhibitors, workshops, panels and performances. It is going to be an fantastic day! Opening with Robin Leeds, closing with Helen Reddy and an private party with Nellie McKay. Online registration is now closed, but you can still join us by registering on-site!

The Mission of the 2008 Annual Membership Meeting/State Conference is to announce loud and clear, that California NOW is the place for women of ALL waves to come together in celebration of the advances of women and girls in California through grassroots activism, consciousness raising, culture, electoral politics and legislation.

Welcome new members, guests & the media to come and celebrate this vital & vibrant organization.
Meet the members, find your local chapter, support the committee that is working on issues that interest you. Inform conference participants through workshops and panels designed by the Committees of California focusing on Women in the Public Eye in each of their areas. Read more about the fantastic events we have planned throughout the day!

Saturday, April 19
9 AM - 5:30 PM
Women in the Public Eye
Hyatt West Hollywood
8401 Sunset Blvd
West Hollywood, California
323 656-1234
http://westhollywood.hyatt.com

Check it out: LGBT March/Rally in Sacramento

The Sacramento Gay and Lesbian Center will hold a Day of Silence/Night of Noise, a march from the Center to the State capitol, as a memorial for Lawrence "Larry" King, on Friday, April 25, 2008 at 5:00pm.

Senator Darrell Steinberg, President Pro-Tem Elect of the Senate, is among the scheduled speakers.

Feminist Art in SF

Check out Amber Whiteside's review and analysis in the SF Bay Guardian of the art exhibit "The Way That We Rhyme: Women, Art & Politics." The exhibit is at the Yerba Buena Center for the Arts (701 Mission, SF) through June 29th.

Whiteside points to the emergence of more feminist art shows, but wonders if too much of it has been "regurgitations of the same old feminist art show with the same discourse, participants, and audience." This show, though, she thinks breaks the mold to some extent. However, she asks an important question about feminist art, and indeed about feminist space and movement in general: "While I understand the rationale for creating a dedicated space for women's art, I think in some ways it only further marginalizes women. Let's integrate women's political art into the larger context and invite men to participate, reminding them that feminism is — and has always been — about men too."

Good point. What do you think?

Regardless, the show definitely seems worth checking out.

The pic is one of the artist's work featured in the show, Lisa Anne Auerbach. VERY cool stuff!

Speier Election Marks History

Women's eNews points out that with the election of California's Jackie Speier, the number of women in Congress reached a new record high! With eighty-seven women now serving in Congress!

Wahoo! Eighty-seven out of 535! That's like 16 whole percent!

(Do you smell that? That's the sarcasm vaporizing off the screen .)

The World According to Monsanto

It's long, but it's worth it. We've got to get the word out about Round Up, herbicides, and the role our government plays to hide the truth. Our lives depend on it!

(It seems to take a long time to buffer, so watch it here)

 

On March 11 a new documentary was aired on French television  (ARTE – French-German cultural tv channel) by French journalist and film  ... all » maker Marie-Monique Robin, The World According to Monsanto - A documentary that Americans won't ever see. The gigantic biotech corporation Monsanto is threatening to destroy the agricultural biodiversity which has served mankind for thousands of years.

Check It Out: International Museum of Women

Masum Mamoya is the curator of the Women, Power and Politics Exhibit at the International Museum of Women.

The untold stories of women claiming and exercising their power around the world and throughout history come alive in I.M.O.W.'s global online exhibition Women, Power and Politics.

From March 8 to December 31, 2008, Women, Power and Politics is available to audiences worldwide in Arabic, English, French and Spanish. They focus on one provocative new topic each month and ask the questions no one is asking. Like never before, women and men are focusing on issues of substance concerning women's political participation.

If you don't already check out the online International Museum of Women on a regular basis, you should. It's gorgeous, powerful and empowering. We can learn so much about ourselves and each other! Here is a description from the website:  I.M.O.W. is a groundbreaking social change museum that inspires global action, connects people across borders and transforms hearts and minds by amplifying the voices of women worldwide through global online exhibitions, history, the arts and cultural programs that educate, create dialogue and build community. With its unique focus on cultural change, I.M.O.W. advances the human right to gender equity worldwide.

How Many Must Die Because They Have No Health Insurance?

Eight people die each day in California because they do not have health insurance.

More than 22% don't have health insurance in California. That is more than 1 in 5 people!

Families USA estimates that more than 8 working-age Californians die EACH DAY due to lack of health insurance (approsimately 3,100 people in 2006).

Across the US, twice as many people died from lack of health insurance as died from homicide!

Check out Families USA to learn more from the first-ever state reports on the number of deaths due to lack of health insurance.

Just a few more reasons to spread the world about SB 840, the Universal Health Care Bill that would give all Californians health care.